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Learning to travel again

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I have always liked travelling. But I lost confidence when I started to lose my sight. My husband and I decided to try traveling around Australia. We drove through Central Australia to Darwin. We got very good at setting up camp. My husband would set it up the same each time. He would also guide me to where everything was. I became increasingly independent. It helped my confidence. We visited many amazing places. My husband pointed out things to look at. He also described them to me and took photos. It was a fantastic trip. We also learned a lot.

Posted by: Kate Giles, on 05/11/10

Uluru in Central Australia at sunset, with two trees in the foreground

Uluru at sunset is absolutely spectacular Image: Tourism NT

My husband and I have always liked to travel. We love the outdoors. But I lost my confidence when my eyesight began to fail. I gave up many of the activities I loved.

With the encouragement of my husband Denis, we decided to dust off the camper trailer and explore Australia. We knew there would be challenges. But I was determined to overcome any problems. So with very little planning or outback knowledge, we joined the grey pilgrimage to Darwin.

Learning to get around

By the time we had reached Cooper Pedy, a system was already beginning to develop. There was a place for everything both inside and outside our camp. Denis started improving his guiding skills. When our camp was set up, I was given a tour of the area. The tour included places such as the amenities block and the camp kitchen. I was also shown objects and their direction in relation to our surroundings. Rough surfaces and uneven grounds were always pointed out.

At night I am totally blind and a good torch came to be my next best friend. My white cane also helped. Through the bumps on the ground I could work out where I was.  I also counted the steps I took, especially around our camp. This stopped me from falling over the tent pegs and ropes. I began to develop a very good memory.

By the time we reached Alice Springs, I was assisting setting up and taking down the camp. Being able to help gave me a sense of satisfaction. Things I thought were impossible were now becoming possible.

Dealing with amenities

Amenities blocks were always a challenge. I have enough sight to help in most situations. But it doesn’t work in crowded areas. Using my white cane also didn’t have the desired effect. It only leaves one hand to balance toiletries and open doors. And when most people see the cane, they respond by trying to give me their place in the line. This made me feel uncomfortable. It was good when the caravan parks had accessible facilities. When they didn’t, I choose to visit the amenities block at a quieter time.

Learning to be patient

I had to learn to be patient and make allowances for my lack of vision. My husband also had to learn. I was now quite slow in my methods. But my slow pace ensured I still had independence. We also found taking our time made for a more relaxed and pleasant journey.

Getting a picture of the countryside

When we were driving, Denis would describe the beauty of the countryside. He also told me where to look. By the time I focused on what he was pointing out, we were usually well past. I came to rely on frequent photo stops. Overall, I was able to visualise and form a good picture in my mind. At the end of each day, we put our photos on the notebook computer. Seeing the pictures filled in things I had missed. Looking at the photos also gave us something to do in the evenings.

On reaching Darwin, we had overcome many of the obstacles we faced. We regarded ourselves as seasoned travellers. We also decided we were adventurers.

Our adventures

Some of our adventures on our journey included:

The benefits

It was a wonderful trip. I got to experience the excitement of travel once again. It may have been different but it was still awe-inspiring.

Our trip also taught my husband a lot about my limited eyesight. It made our relationship stronger. And it also showed me my strengths and my weaknesses. It built my confidence and self-esteem. Most obstacles we confronted were overcome. We just needed to be brave and patient.


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Posted by: john Doolen, tassie 24/11/2010 at 10:42pm

What a beautiful portrait of marriage you have presented to us,husband and wife working together to overcome the obstacles of your sight problems and proving that a holiday can be a blessing not a nightmare.I imagine your husband has become a great orator in conversation now,well done.

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